ThaiSecret is an international dating site for singles looking for a serious, lasting relationship across borders, with a special focus on connecting Europe and Asia, particularly Thailand.
You can create a detailed profile for free, browse members by your own criteria (country, languages spoken, values) and get to know each other at your own pace through private messaging. Every profile and every photo is reviewed by our moderation team to keep conversations genuine and respectful.
Signing up for ThaiSecret is completely free, with no commitment. A free account lets you create your profile, add your photos, browse members and receive messages.
To enjoy all the features, including unlimited messaging, a paid subscription is available. You can cancel it at any time from your account area, under "manage my subscription".
ThaiSecret is for single women and men, aged 18 or over, who want to build a sincere relationship with someone from another culture: a Western-Thai relationship, an international couple, moving abroad together, or simply the desire to widen your romantic horizons.
The site is not designed for casual flings: our community values respect, patience and the wish to build a love story that lasts, whether nearby or on the other side of the world.
ThaiSecret is accessible worldwide and its interface is available in six languages: English, French, German, Spanish, Russian and Thai.
You can switch languages at any time using the selector in the site menu. Our members come from many countries across Europe and Asia, which makes ThaiSecret an ideal place for serious international dating.
Our members' safety is our top priority. Every photo and every profile is checked by our moderation team before it goes live. Members can get their profile verified to prove their authenticity, report any suspicious behavior and block an unwanted member with a single click.
Your personal data is protected in accordance with the GDPR: it is never sold, and you can delete your account and all your information at any time. Our team will never ask for your password or your bank details by message.
ThaiSecret is restricted to adults aged 18 or over. By signing up, you agree to follow our terms of use: an honest profile, courteous conversations and respect for other members.
Any misleading profile, fraudulent behavior or lack of respect towards others may lead to the account being suspended or removed by our moderation team.
Signing up for ThaiSecret takes less than two minutes and is completely free. Go to the registration page, then create your account with your email address or sign in directly with your Google or Apple account.
You will receive an activation email: click the link inside to confirm your account, complete your profile, add a photo and start your search.
A complete profile gets far more visits and messages. Focus on three things:
Verification is a badge that confirms your profile is authentic and immediately reassures the members you contact. A verified profile gets noticeably more replies: it is a real asset in international dating, where trust is everything.
To get verified, go to your account area, open the verification section and follow the photo verification process. Our team then approves your request within a few days.
You can delete your ThaiSecret account at any time. Log in to your member area, click "Settings", then "manage my account" and finally "Unsubscribe".
Please note: deleting your profile is permanent. It destroys all your data (photos, messages, contacts) and cancels your subscription if you have one, in line with our privacy policy.
Use ThaiSecret's search to filter members by your own criteria: country, city, age range, languages spoken, education, religion or the type of relationship they are looking for. That is the strength of an international dating site: finding someone who shares your values, wherever they live.
You can also browse new members, recently active members or the most popular profiles in the top members ranking to multiply your chances of making contact.
The best way to start a conversation is to send a personalized private message: mention a detail from their profile (a trip, a language they are learning, a shared interest) rather than a simple "hello". Personalized messages get far more replies.
You can also show your interest by voting for a profile, sending a friend request or leaving a public testimonial. Private messaging stays confidential: only you and the other member can see your conversation.
You receive an email as soon as a member sends you a private message, sends you a friend request or accepts yours. These notifications are switched on by default.
You can turn them off or back on at any time from your account area, under "Manage my email alerts". You can also enable browser notifications to be alerted in real time.
First, check the "spam" or "junk" folders of your mailbox: if our emails are there, mark them as "not spam" so future messages arrive normally.
Next, make sure your alerts are switched on in your account area, under "Manage my email alerts". If the problem continues, contact our team through the contact form: we will check email delivery to your address.
Several warning signs should put you on alert: impersonal copy-and-paste messages, photos that look too perfect or heavily edited, a strange username, a declaration of love that comes very quickly, or someone who immediately wants to leave the site for another messaging app.
Golden rule: never send money, whatever the story (a medical emergency, a plane ticket, a visa). Never share your passwords or your bank details. Our team will never ask you for them. If you have the slightest doubt, report the profile: our moderation team reviews every report.
If a member behaves in a way that breaks our terms of use (inappropriate messages, attempted fraud, stolen photos), report them directly from their profile or contact our team through the contact form, stating their username and the reason for the report.
Every report is reviewed by a moderator. ThaiSecret actively monitors suspicious sign-ups to keep our community genuine and welcoming.
You can ignore a member at any time from their profile: they will no longer be able to write to you or interact with you, and you will no longer see their messages. This action is reversible: you can remove the block from that member's profile.
If the member's behavior calls for action from our team, pair the block with a report.
A successful cross-cultural relationship rests on three pillars: curiosity, respect and patience. Take a genuine interest in the other person's culture (traditions, family, food, religion), ask questions without judging and avoid stereotypes.
Take the time to build trust: a serious relationship between two countries often grows more slowly than a local one, but it is all the stronger for it. Learning a few words of the other person's language is always a much-appreciated gesture.
Simple English is the most common language for international dating, but it is by no means a requirement. On ThaiSecret, every profile shows the languages the member speaks: use the "languages" filter in the search to find people you can communicate with easily.
If you do not share a common language yet, write short, clear sentences, use a translation tool and be patient: goodwill on both sides often works wonders.
The "Trips" section on ThaiSecret lets you announce your upcoming travel: enter your destination and your dates, and members in that area will see that you will soon be nearby.
It is the perfect tool for turning an online connection into a real-life meeting: you plan a trip to Thailand or anywhere else, and you arrange your dates before you even leave. You can also browse trips announced by other members to see who will be visiting your country soon.
For a first meeting in person, always choose a public place (a cafe, a restaurant, a park) and let someone close to you know about your plans. Take the time to chat enough beforehand to make sure the person is genuine; a verified profile is an extra sign of trust.
If the meeting involves traveling abroad, stay in control of your own arrangements: book your tickets and accommodation yourself, keep hold of your documents and make sure you are financially independent. Caution does not get in the way of romance, it protects it.
A long-distance relationship thrives on regular contact and concrete plans. Set a rhythm that works for both of you (messages, calls, video calls) while keeping the time difference in mind, share your daily life in photos and quickly set a shared goal: the next time you will meet.
The international couples who succeed are the ones who plan ahead: one trip, then another, and eventually a life project together. Distance then becomes a stage in the journey, not an obstacle.